Some of you may know how hard it is to work much, study a lot and keep a healthy relationship with your other half. To be honest it is very difficult and a long way to go. Without compromises it won’t work anyway.
First of all you have to know is my girlfriend, just call her Ms. K, got a job in a very big company in Germany. She even got into a dual studying programm for the bachelor’s degree. Everything was fine and her path was clear… Until she met me. I would say it was love at first sight, or maybe second, third, fourth ?! 😛 At the end we both got into a relationship. 🙂 As soon as the relationship started, we both faced a huge probleme…It was the time! In that year we had a lot to do for work and university. Also just had start my own business and worked more than 9-10 hours per day. The other problem was the distance, because about 80-90 km were between us. So we decided to see us on weekends.
After a year we realized how difficult everything was and the next step was right in front of us. We talked a lot about our situation and how we could handle it. Let’s be real here, sometimes you fight and argue but the important thing is to come back loving each other right ?! Stress level so high at that time and we both were so tired of everything. Of course there was this one question: Do we love each other that much to spend 24/7 together ?! So after all that commitment, promises and a lot of beautiful moments, we decided to take a step further and moved together. It was the only option to keep our relationship and push it to another level. If you work and study the whole day, having meetings with your business partners or staying at the library to learn, than nothing feels better to come home and see your future wife. At least we are having dinner every day and spend a few hours together. Yeah I appreciate every little thing she did and still is doing. Sometimes it is enough to talk with each other about some serious or silly stuff. The only few hours we both got left, is about having effective quality time. That’s the secret 🙂